When you get to the point in your life whether it is with someone, or
something that you feel you have grown, no matter how hard it may be to pick up
those pieces you have to move on. If
someone is making you unhappy and you have tried everything to make things work…there
is something better out there for you, and sometimes it can be right under your
nose! This may be a career, a
friendship, a love relationship.
Living life stagnantly is really not living with meaning. A question I ask people sometimes when they
are in doubt about something, or unsure of the next decision is if this was the
last year of your life and you knew this, would you still make the same
choices?
If the answer to that question is no, than you really need to sit down
and see what makes you happy. Being
happy is not about material things, because you can be the poorest person in
the world, and have the greatest love and family and friends you have ever
known. At the same time there are others
out there that may have everything, but are the loneliest of souls.
Ask yourself this question the next time you are meditating, praying, or
just sitting in reflection. If this was
the last year of your life, how would
you choose to live this year? I
encourage you to make the changes needed to grow, to become a better version of
yourself, to be happy because after all, don’t you deserve this?
